Episode 293

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30th Apr 2025

293: [Brianna Colon] Faith + Finances: How Spiritual Beliefs Shape Financial Freedom

In this inspiring episode of About That Wallet, host Anthony Weaver sits down with Brianna Colon — a three-time author, financial coach, and passionate advocate for financial literacy. Together, they dive deep into the spiritual side of money management, exploring how faith, prayer, and mindset shape financial freedom.

Brianna shares powerful personal stories about patience, trusting God during financial decisions, and why a written budget is one of the most important tools for building wealth. You'll hear practical strategies on how to manage your cash flow, avoid emotional spending traps, set realistic savings goals, and create a financial plan that honors your faith and your family's future.

If you're part of the Sandwich Generation — juggling the care of both children and aging parents — this conversation is packed with tips to help you secure your financial foundation without losing sight of your values.

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(00:00) Welcome and Introduction

(02:30) Brianna's Background and Mission for Financial Literacy

(10:15) Faith + Finances: How Spiritual Beliefs Shape Financial Freedom

(18:00) Budgeting Tips That Actually Work

(25:45) Tackling Emotional Spending With Mindfulness

(32:30) Building a Financial Plan That Honors Your Faith and Family

(40:00) Financial Strategies for the Sandwich Generation

(48:15) Final Thoughts and Words of Wisdom

(55:00) How to Stay Connected with Brianna


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>> Brianna Colon: So that's one area just to say, okay, now

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that I realize I'm spending $500 eating

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out in a month, let me see how I can channel that

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back. But secondly is making sure you have a written budget.

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That's that it sounds really simple. But, uh,

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every day we see people who never have had one and they've been

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around. So even though it seems like

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sometimes the problem is not as big as people seem to

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think that it is. Oh, money is tight. Sometimes money

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is not tight. It's how you're managing that's the problem. So

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it's the same. We take the same money that they've already

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had and we turn that around and just free up, uh, cash flow

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so that they can redirect it to more important things that they say

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are their goal.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Welcome back everybody to another exciting show, the about that

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Wallet podcast, where we help the savage generation build strong

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financial habits so that they can spend money,

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talk about money, and enjoy their money with

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confidence. And today I have a person who is

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a three time author, a professional speaker,

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and very passionate about families and helping them achieve

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financial security, which really aligns with

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this podcast. And her name is

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Brianna Colon And I just want to thank

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you so much Rihanna for coming on to the show.

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And how are you doing today?

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>> Brianna Colon: I am doing fantastic. Great to

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hang out with you today.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah, we had a, a, a, um, great laugh.

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>> Brianna Colon: Absolutely.

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>> Anthony Weaver: So one of the things

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uh, that you talk about in your books is about

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religion and also finances.

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What, mhm. Is the common theme that you found

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where the religious piece has really

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made such an impact for someone's

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finances?

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>> Brianna Colon: Well, it's impacted even just for me personally.

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I can speak from experience of uh, how

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uh, having my faith in God has

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absolutely had a direct impact on

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our finances, how we make financial decisions,

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how when we pray for things and you know,

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that are related to finances. Like we, we prayed

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for, um, and we asked God to help us

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to find a new place to live and we moved

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from one part of Maryland to another part of Maryland and

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we had to make a decision. We were selling our house and then we

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had to, you know, when you're in a new area, you want to rent.

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So anyway, long story short, we prayed

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and asked the Lord to help us find a new place to rent. Now this is an

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example of where we didn't listen to God but had the

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importance of the spiritual aspect of it and bring it full

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circle. So we were looking for a place

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to rent and couldn't uh, find anywhere. Everywhere

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was so expensive because where we were moving, the price of

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the houses were like, twice as much. So. But that's

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the beauty of having God the Father, because if

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he can create a whole heaven and earth, what makes us think that he can't

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find us one house that fits within our price range?

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But at the time, we were still growing

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spiritually, which, that's a lifelong journey. But at that

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point, um, we were getting down to the wire because we're a

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military family, and we felt like, oh, we haven't found anything. We just

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got to make a decision. So we signed on a dotted line for this

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house that was $2,700 a month to rent.

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Didn't even like the house. And not even a

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few days later, this lady reached out to us that I

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had inquired with but had not seen pictures of the house. She didn't get

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back to me, so I just assumed it was no, you know, so she got

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back to me and said, oh, I'm sorry I didn't get back to you. Um,

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but here's the pictures of the house. And the house

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was exactly what we were looking for. It was

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1800amonth, which was exactly what our mortgage was

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at the previous house. Had we just waited, we

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prayed, but we didn't wait for God to answer.

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But had we waited, you know, we would have been able to capture that.

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So fast forward a few years. Several, uh, about

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10 or 15 years later, we went to, uh,

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sell the house that we bought later and then, you

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know, buy another house. But anyway, this time around, we learned our

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lesson spiritually. We were like, okay, we're King's

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kids. We understand the power of prayer, and we are going to

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wait. We're not going to be impatient and not be in microwave

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society. So we did. We were determined at the time they told

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us, for real estate, oh, you're probably going to have to overbid to

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get the house and that kind of thing. And so we

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decided, uh, we're not doing that. We're King's kids. We don't.

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We don't have to operate that way. So we didn't. We ended

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up selling our house and had several people overbid

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for our house. But the house that we bought, we did not pay a

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penny over what they asked for and got money back

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at closing. So I'm just saying as

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a personal witness, that's just one of, uh, many accounts that I

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have in my journal of how God has had a direct

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impact in our lives financially. And we have

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seen with our clients, in working with them, one

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on one, many, many Times where they come in

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and they, they feel like they make good money, they don't have enough to

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show for it, but they're coming in trying to be better stewards.

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That is their goal. And as Christians, I

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have watched God bless them to where

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they, before money was tight. And uh,

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as they're making these adjustments and strategies that we're

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asking them to, they just start having blessings out of

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nowhere. People just, uh, they're getting promotions that

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weren't expected or some surprise

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check or something that's happening. And they fully understand

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that it's the power of God working in their life. That because they're

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becoming better stewards and striving for that,

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that leaves the room that, okay, now I can bless you in this

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way because you're going to be able to handle it. You're going to be able to handle what I'm

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trying to give you. So I'm shut up right there.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Oh, no, that is, I mean, so you keep going

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because it is one of the things that goes back to

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your motto of your, uh, business, which is change your mind,

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change your money and change your life. So can you talk a little bit

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more about that process?

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>> Brianna Colon: Yes, yes. So that is exactly how

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we help our clients. Our mission is to

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empower families to financial freedom

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using mindset and money strategy. So that motto, change

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your mind, change your money, change your life absolutely

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ties directly into the end result. If

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we want to be able to see something different, we got to be willing to do

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some things different. It's one thing to, uh,

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just, oh, I just, I just need to get on a budget and I'll

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be fine. Or I'm going to just file bankruptcy and then I'll

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just start fresh and I'll be good. That's not enough. That's a band

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aid. If we don't change the habits that led

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to the issue of the finances being tight,

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then how do we expect to have a long lasting result? We

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can't. So it's important to get to the root

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issues of why I'm not

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where I feel I need to be financially at this point

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in time. You may have someone that on the surface may

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say, like, I had a client that said, uh,

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well, I was unemployed for

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seven, um, months and so that caused me to get behind on the

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bills and it just caused a ripple effect and

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everything. Now that might have been an additional

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condition. Uh, but the root issue is you're not

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a saver. Because if you were properly saving and

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understood how to save from the beginning, that seven months would

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have Been a welcome vacation. It wouldn't have been a stress out. I can't

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pay my bills. So it's really, really important.

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And this is the reason why people end up filing for bankruptcy

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twice, because it's easy to say, well, they didn't learn their

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lesson the first time. No, they just didn't understand that they needed to

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get to the root issue of the money habits that have

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contributed to them being, in their own

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way, financially.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Because we talking to the sandwich generation here, which means that

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they have kids to take care of and also their care

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takers of their, uh, their parents. What

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strategies for the people who are tight right

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now to look even for retirement, to kind

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of breathe a little bit. Like, what strategies would

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you, um, I would say

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suggest for them because we can't recommend because,

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you know, you have to work with you to get some recommendations.

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But as a suggestion.

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>> Brianna Colon: Right, right. Well, one of the things that I find is very

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common with a lot of people is

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using the debit card. A lot of people have just gotten

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comfortable using the debit card for everything.

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Everything is swipe, swipe, swipe. But the problem is it

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gives us a false sense of what we're spending because

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we tend to get comfortable and feel like, oh, it was just $20,

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it was just $10, it was just 15, and before you know

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it, it was actually 400, it was actually 800. So

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one of the things that's a practical thing that they can do

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is to go back and look. If you're a debit card user and, you know, you don't

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cash and carry, go back and look at two

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months of, uh, bank statements and write down

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the categories for. We're not talking about the bills, we're talking about

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everything else you spent money on. And break it

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down by category. And look, look at how much you spend on

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gas, how much you spent on groceries, on

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shopping, on eating out. And you will

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be surprised, uh, at what you find out. People

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get amazing. Um,

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this is part of the homework process that we have our clients actually go through.

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But this is something practical people can do. But the point is,

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when people do do this, you know, they come back looking at

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it like, oh, my gosh, I can't believe,

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uh, I'm spending this much money in this area.

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What, Uh, I can't believe I gave $300 to

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doggone Starbucks. What was I thinking? You know, they

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just really don't realize. So just that little simple

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exercise raises your awareness

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to say, all right, I'm really tripping. Let me pull back in this Area.

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So that's one area just to say, okay, now that

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I realize I'm spending $500 eating out

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in a month, let me see how I can channel that

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back. But secondly is making sure you have a written budget.

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That's that. It sounds really simple. But, uh,

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every day we see people who never have had one and they've been

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around. So even though it seems like

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sometimes the problem is not as big as people seem to

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think that it is. Oh, money is tight. Sometimes money

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is not tight. It's how you're managing that's the problem.

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So it's the same. We take the same money that

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they've already had and we turn that around and just free

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up cash flow so that they can redirect it to more important things

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that they say are their goals. So sometimes it's just. You're

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so used to seeing it the way you're seeing it, it's hard to

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capture anything different or see the problem. So if they do that, those

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are just two practical things of,

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uh, let me pull two months of bank statements and see what

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I've really been doing and how can I pull back in that area?

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Maybe I actually could free up money that I didn't even know I

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could. Uh, you know, that, that's one thing.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah, yeah, those, those are really good practical tips.

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And I'm trying to think of somebody so

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say if they. Have you ever had anybody

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actually faltered? Like they went through the program, they was like, oh,

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yeah, I love it, doing the thing, and then

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they failed again. What was the reason why they

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relapse?

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>> Brianna Colon: So the, the money behavior

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would be the reason. We have had, uh, maybe

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a couple, couple people, few people that, that have

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had. That had gotten on a good path and we had gotten to where

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I was only seeing them maybe every three months or every

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six months. You know, we have a graduation process here.

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So, um, but then they had had a relapse

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and. And it really was the one. I'll give

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one example. For the family, it was a money

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behavior issue of, uh, emotional

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spending. Making major financial decisions

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from an emotional state of mind is an

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issue for some people. And trying to overcome

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that habit, it takes time, which is why this

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is like a long process because you didn't get where you were overnight. So

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you're not going to get out of it overnight, but you have to have

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enough, uh, life circumstances happen

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to practice, uh, that new habit that you're

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trying to create and one of, in this case, emotional

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spending. So for that particular family, they had a family

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a Major family event where a family member had gotten

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sick and was in the hospital for an extended period of time.

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And that caused them to, oh, I'm just dropping everything,

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because the person, the family member was in the hospital in a

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different location, and it wasn't, uh, feasible for them

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to just be driving back and forth. So then it became, well, now we need

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to get an Airbnb. Now we need to. We need to, you know, so without

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even really sitting down to say, let me use my planning

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tool. Let me not forget all the stuff that I just spent a year or two

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learning. It was just the emotion of,

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oh, I got to be there. I'm going to do whatever's necessary, you

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know. And so that caused them to quickly

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start draining the savings that we had built and, you

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know, having more credit debt again, and so those

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types of things. And so now, you know, they. They, you

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know, were able to come back, of course, and we were able to address that and kind of

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get back on track. But that's just, you know, one example that

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can cause a person to be derailed if they just

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haven't. If they don't take a minute and just say, let me. Let me

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just hold up. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Don't just. And

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do stuff. Um, I did learn some things.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah. Because it goes back to the emergency fund.

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What are your thoughts on that? Common theme from the one person

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with glasses as ballheaded like to say that you only need

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$1,000 to, uh, for your

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emergency fund. So what are your thoughts on that?

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>> Brianna Colon: I disagree. I object, your

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honor. So

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it's $1,000 is the first goal. If you don't

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have any money saved, people have the right

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idea of, I know I should save money,

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but we don't always do good with saving with

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intention. Knowing what is the number I should be

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striving for. What's the magic number? Sometimes we can

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get to 10,000 and think we've done something that's an accomplishment,

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but that's not enough. So the first goal should be

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$1,000. If you have no money saved at all, I got to at

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least get to a thousand as soon as possible.

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Uh, the next goal after that would be to look at,

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again, going back to the budget, which is your planning tool, to see

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how much money do I bring in, what against, what are all my

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expenses, subtracting that. And so when you're looking at all of

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that, how much money does it take to run

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your house? We know your lifestyle number is what you're used

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to living off of the full amount of the check. But what is

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your necessity number? If you were laying out all of

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the bills, the groceries, the gas, everything that needs to be

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paid for, that has to be paid for in a given month and you

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lost your job tomorrow, what is that number?

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And whatever that number is, that becomes your next goal.

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That is my one month cash reserve goal.

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So once you have gotten to that goal, then you keep going two

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months cash reserve and it allows people again to

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start saving with intention. Because now that I understand

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that, now I can figure out how much money can I

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allocate to savings consistently every month

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and now I can set a goal date. People don't set goal dates like

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they should, which they make savings optional. Oh well, yeah, I'm

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not going to save this month because I had to take care of so and so and so and

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so they devalue savings. But saving

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money is just as important as getting out of debt.

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And you know, when people get a lump sum of money, what do they do most of the time

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they oh, I'm gonna pay off this, this and this, and I'm gonna spend this,

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this and this and I might save $50.

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What? That's backwards. No, if we

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get a lump sum of money and we don't have any money saved, we better be

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thinking about the savings because we don't know when an

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emergency is going to come. We don't get a heads up advance

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that the emergency is coming. So what happens if we put all

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this money on the debt and now an emergency comes, we didn't

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save nothing and now we're right back in debt again and then the cycle

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continues and we see that a lot with people. So

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anyway, the point is that you continue and

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so I used to say a six month

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cash reserve, but now that we've seen clients that

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have been out of work for extended periods, now

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we say 12 months. I call it the peace of mind package.

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And it sounds like a lot of money, but that doesn't mean you got to have it all

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in uh, in a savings account, earning point nothing percent.

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It just means that you have liquid cash that's accessible to

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you. If you're making a hundred thousand dollars a year, you should have

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way more than $10,000 sitting in your account.

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That's a great start if you used to saving, but you got to keep going.

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If you start thinking about that. Wait a minute, if I'm used to taking

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home six to $8,000 a month, how long

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is uh, $10,000 gonna last me? A

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minute, a short minute.

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>> Anthony Weaver: You Got that right.

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>> Brianna Colon: Yeah. You know, but people don't think about it

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from that perspective because many are not

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used to having lots of money. Like sometimes I tell

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clients, sometimes you got to give yourself permission that it's

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okay for you to have $50,000 just

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sitting up. It's okay for you to have 75,000.

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Like it's okay you making 100,000 a year. Why can't

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you have 75,000 saved up, you know, and some.

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But it's sometimes it's that simple. For it to click in people's minds,

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change your mind is just giving yourself

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permission. It's okay for me to have a lot of money. It really is okay.

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I'm not working just to pay bills.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Love it.

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So we're going to move into the third segment here, which is the

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futures. And what do you

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see has been like in the

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trajectory, the way how things are going? How do

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you see that the sandwich generation can move to a

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place where they have the most confidence? Um,

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like, are there any strategies, AI tools,

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like any new systems that you can think of that could kind

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of help people solidify their

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features?

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>> Brianna Colon: M. That's a good one. How

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to solidify their future.

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I don't know of any AI

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tools. I'm still getting into the AI

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portion of the world, but technology.

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But uh, in general, the best

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way that you can solidify your future is to make sure you have

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a solid financial plan. Because you have a

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financial plan, then you also have peace of mind. You know

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where you are now, you know where you're headed, you know where you're going.

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And it allows you to

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position yourself to always have a choice.

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You know, when people start planning towards future as

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far as like retirement and whatnot,

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um, they. Again, this is another

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area where people have the right idea but don't always know

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how to do things properly. So we have the right idea of, uh,

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we know we should put money aside so we can have money in the

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future. Whether we're investing it, uh, outside of

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retirement or whether we're just putting money aside for

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retirement, but we don't always know if what

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we're doing is going to get us where we need to be. That's a whole

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different thing. It's one thing to have an investment account or a

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retirement account, but if you don't have a retirement

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plan, then what, what are we doing? You're just throwing money in and

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hoping for an end result. We don't have to hope for the end result.

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We can actually plan and know what the result is going to

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Be. So that is, is protecting your

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future. That is how you prepare, is let me make

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sure that I am solid and that I understand.

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How do I eliminate debt? How do I move to a

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place of financial freedom both now and later? I want

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to be able to live life on my own terms.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah.

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>> Brianna Colon: Do what I want to do when I feel like doing it.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Because I mean, like you said, it's having those options to do what you want to

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do.

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>> Brianna Colon: Yes. Positioning to have the choice.

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Oh, key factor right

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now.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Do you have these conversations with your parents too, or

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your husband's parents? Like, far as, like, what are y'all

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planning on doing in the future? Like, are they

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going to stay with y'all? Are you going to put them in like a

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assistant living or you're gonna.

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>> Brianna Colon: I'm putting them in the nursing home.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Staying over here.

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>> Brianna Colon: No, I'm kidding. But now,

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yes, we absolutely have, uh, had those

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conversations. And, and that's a good point that, that you're making

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about the fact that we should have these conversations with our

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parents. Sometimes that's the hush, hush conversation,

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you know. Oh, I don't know. I don't want to tell you all that because

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what, you're trying to kill me off? What's going on

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here? So, yes, we did have the conversation

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of, um, what do you have in place

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for, uh, if you have to go into, well,

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a. What type of care do you want to receive? If you get to

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a point that you can't take care of yourself? Do you want to go into

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assisted living facility? Do you want to have a caregiver come into

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the home? And once we know the answer to that, then

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the next question is, now we know how much that is going to

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cost. Where is that money coming from? Do you have a long term care

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policy? Do you have enough in your retirement assets to

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cover all of those expenses? Is that going

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to come out of my pocket? I need to know in advance

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because I didn't plan that in my financial plan. That wasn't in

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there.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Right.

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>> Brianna Colon: All right. It's not in my retirement plan. But we are,

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uh, planning as far as in our

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home having a suite on the main

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floor so that if any of our parents need to come and live with

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us, then we're, we're prepared from that standpoint to be

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able to take care of our family. And actually my father, he

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passed away a couple of years ago. I actually did have to have him come and

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live with me. Um, but prior to that, years

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prior to that, I actually sat down with him as well.

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And said, hey, you know, do you have a will? You know,

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what do you have? And he had none of that in place. He was

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doing great financially. He didn't have any debt, but

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did not have a will in place. So I helped him to get a will. That's another

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area that we need to know as, uh, the, you know, the

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ones that are taking care of our parents in the future. Those

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are hard questions to ask sometimes, depending on the nature

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of your relationship, but. But an important question to ask because

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we don't want to be scrambling. It's enough to already be grieving when you

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lose a loved one, but it would be nice for them to have their

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stuff in order, get the estate planning done, do everything that you

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need to do so that all of your finances are in

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order. Do you know what life insurance your parents have? You

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know, are you. Are they putting an executive executor on

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the estate? And sometimes even when they have life insurance policies,

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they don't always. Not all of them have had good policies.

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>> Anthony Weaver: That's true.

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>> Brianna Colon: We had a lady that. Her, um, A

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client of mine whose mother was 79 at the

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time, and they were trying. Her and her siblings had been trying to have conversation

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with her about her important papers, if you will. And she was

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not really trying to talk to them about it. It was, you know, one of them things. The

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briefcases in the back, on the back porch. Don't touch it and don't

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ask me. So, um, so anyway, she had been working

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with me and asked her mom if she would be open to talking to me.

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And so mom was open to meeting with me.

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And we sat down and looked and went through all of her stuff and come to find

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out her insurance policy was going to expire at 80 years

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old. And she was 79. And we were like,

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are you serious right now? That was such a blessing

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and God's timing on, uh, me meeting

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with her because, you know, who wants to be finding out at 80?

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Oh, yeah, by the way, sorry, your policy is done. Sorry,

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Sorry. Or if we let you keep it, you're gonna have to pay

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$1,000 now instead of maybe the hundred dollars you were paying

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before.

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So we were able to fix that and get it all switched around.

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But I'm just again stressing the importance

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of having people that, um,

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that, uh, making sure that you look at your parents stuff and make sure

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they understand what they have. Because some of it they got a long time ago.

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They got it from, you know, brother such and such who was selling

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insurance, and they were just Doing, you know, helping them out. And they didn't really

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understand everything. In fact, I got one more example, and I shut

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up. I have a, um, client

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that just reached out to me within the last week,

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whose father is 84 years old,

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and they're now having to keep paying more

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into the insurance. The policy keeps, uh, going up,

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keeps going up, and, uh, there's no end in sight. Uh,

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it's going to keep going up every year. And they were trying to

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decide, we put all this money into it. Do we keep it

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at this point, or do we just, you know, try to suffer

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through and keep paying on it? Like, you shouldn't have to be

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making those kind of decisions with your parents at, uh, 84

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years old. What in the world? So please have

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that conversation hard or not hard, because eventually

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you become the parents to your parent. So it's important to open

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up that dialogue. Hey, I'm just trying to look out for you

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and want to make sure that if there's any areas of deficiency,

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that we address that together so that we make sure you have all

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your stuff in a row. I got all my stuff in a row. And we're all doing

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great financially.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Love it.

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Um, is there anything you want to leave a, uh, person that's

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listening to this right now before we dive into the final

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four?

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>> Brianna Colon: Anything that you want to

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achieve financially is possible.

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Sometimes people will, uh, be afraid

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to voice the things that they really desire and really

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want because they feel it's so far out there that it's not

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okay. And I don't know at all, based on my current

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situation, when am I going to be able to achieve it? Your current

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situation is your current situation. You have the ability to change.

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Being broke, um, is optional. You don't have to be in

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that particular place. Wherever you're at now financially,

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is not where you have to be in the future. Financially, it's

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important to get with. If you don't know how to do it on your own, then

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it's important for you to get with a financial advisor that you can

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trust so that you can get a solid plan. Because I'm

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telling you, whatever you want financially is possible

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with a good financial plan. You just gotta be

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willing to change your mind, change your money, and that

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will change your life.

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>> Anthony Weaver: I love that. Full circle here.

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>> Brianna Colon: That's what I do, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Uh, so you ready for the final four?

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>> Brianna Colon: Sure.

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>> Anthony Weaver: All right, number one, what does wealth

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mean to you?

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>> Brianna Colon: Love it.

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Wealth to me

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means being able

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to do what I want to do when I Want to

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do it, live life on my own terms

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continuously.

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Because if I'm doing well continuously, then

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that means those that are attached to me will be doing well

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continuously because I can't take it with me when I die.

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So, uh, but if I want to take a trip

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and not have to worry about pinching

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pennies, if I want to take a first class trip every time

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I want to be able to do that, or making work

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optional, all that fits into the same category

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where work is optional, but I'm only 50 years old.

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You know, like, that's creating wealth, the

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ability to live life on your own terms

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continuously.

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>> Anthony Weaver: I like that number. Ah,

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two. What was your worst money mistake?

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>> Brianna Colon: Well, that's a good one. Having seven credit cards in

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college.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Wow.

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>> Brianna Colon: Okay. I didn't grow up learning about money.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Right.

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>> Brianna Colon: And you know, even though my parents were doing fine, you know,

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they, that's a cultural thing. We didn't always know

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everything that we're supposed to teach. Of course, parents do the best they know how to

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do. But, um, the financial area weren't

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things that they taught me. So I just

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learned on my own and signed up for every credit card they

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offered me in college. You know, they offered me free stuff in

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exchange for applying. So I just thought it was a good

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idea. And before you know it, I had

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seven credit cards. But I was working.

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I was working. And so I, um,

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figured I got my own money. I was playing. I was a musician and a

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choir director. So I was making my own money and figured, oh, I'm

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fine. But it almost cost me

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marrying my now husband because we went to look

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at the finances and said, hey, uh, he was

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like, uh, you got a lot going on here.

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And he almost didn't marry me because of my debt.

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But luckily I had enough of everything else going on

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that he married me anyway. And now here we are 30 years

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later, but we work together to get out of debt is the point.

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So. But 30 years later, we're still together. Be 30 years

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this coming July.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Congrats. Congrats.

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>> Brianna Colon: Thank you. And I'm still 30 years old. Look at that.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah. No, right. Flawless over there.

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>> Brianna Colon: Amazing.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Um, this is a side question though. How important

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is are the parents when it comes to the child's

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finances?

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>> Brianna Colon: It's very important because

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if you don't teach them, it's either taught or it's

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caught. It's one or the other. Either.

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Either they're going to learn by you teaching

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them or they're going to catch your bad

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habits because they're around you. And they're learning everything

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you do. We have seen generational

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curses, uh, going on, uh, within our organization

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and our families because we, we encourage our families to

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make it a, make it a family affair when they start this

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process, especially for those living with them. We tell them, look,

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uh, you need to go ahead and tell your kids that, uh, you're

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going on a financial path and they may be impacted by

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these changes, but they need to govern themselves accordingly. So,

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yes, it's a very big deal what you

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do and how you manage your money is a very big deal as it

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pertains to your kids. And there are things that you need to be teaching them along

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the way that can help them to learn and be more

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open. Sometimes parents aren't open about it, especially if they're not doing

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well. But it's important to let the kids see

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that helps them learn and prepare for adulthood. And sometimes you'll

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find they'll keep you more accountable than you can keep yourself. Ma, you said

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you were only spending 200 on the groceries. And you, you

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had 260. You better register embarrassed. Like, shut

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up.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Talk about it.

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>> Brianna Colon: Right? But I asked you shut up. But

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you said so. Uh, so I think

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that's, it's, um, the role that we

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play in helping them to learn about money

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absolutely impacts how they manage money

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as adults. Because I have absolutely seen

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moms manage money terribly. And then

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it trickled down to the adult children that I meet with,

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too, that also manage money terribly. So if we can

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make changes and adjustments now, even if it's teaching them

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to not do what you're doing, you know, that's still

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helpful. That's still teaching. It's still

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meaningful.

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>> Anthony Weaver: I like that. Thank you.

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Uh, number three, Is there a book that inspired your

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journey or changed your perspective?

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>> Brianna Colon: Think, uh, and grow rich. Napoleon

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Hill. You know, our. Our mind, uh, it's

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amazing. The brain is amazing. And

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the things that we're able to

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visualize and eventually,

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uh, materialize, cause it to become a reality

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later, is amazing. And I think if we really

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understood how the brain works and the things that.

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The control that we do have, the things that we can think

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about and visualize,

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um, many people would probably be a lot

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further than they, than they are. Um, I had

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a. I, uh, used to visualize,

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um, a, ah, BMW before I bought

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one. And not

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just visualize like, oh, that's a cute car. But I mean, like,

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spend time with my eyes closed thinking

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about what it would feel like once I got in the car. I was seeing

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myself in the car, like, I had the shades on. I was

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looking in the rearview mirror, looking at myself. I had the top down.

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I mean, you know, like, I was chilling,

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right? And I actually had forgotten because I spent

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time, you know, like, just a few minutes a day visualizing,

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thinking about it, because I was like, this is on my vision board, and I want

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one. And then some. It took some

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years before I bought it, but. And by the

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time I bought it, I actually had forgotten that I had been thinking about it, actually, because

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I had stopped thinking about it and moved on to other stuff. But then it

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hit me one day after I had the car, and I was

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like, oh, I had been visualizing about

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this thing. Oh, my goodness. Oh, look at that. Look at

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that. But, you know, this amazing that, you know,

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the things that we think about. Everything starts with a

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vision. This company I have right now started with a vision. I knew

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I wanted to be able to help people with their finances.

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Uh, and I wanted to really help the people who would not

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ordinarily pick up the phone and say, I need a financial advisor.

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The. The. That middle group. So I, um.

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And God has done just that. That. This. That we. Has.

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Has allowed us to just help people to change their

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financial life in ways that they never knew was possible. So that

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whole visual thing. Oh, my goodness. Yes.

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>> Anthony Weaver: I love it.

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>> Brianna Colon: Please do visualization. Yes.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah. And to make that.

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>> Brianna Colon: Ah, Think and grow rich.

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>> Anthony Weaver: There you go.

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>> Brianna Colon: Yes. Think and grow rich.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Number four, what is your favorite

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dish to make?

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>> Brianna Colon: Well, that would require you to actually like to cook.

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Okay. My favorite dish, okay. Of,

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uh, the handful of dishes that I cook

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is macaroni and cheese. Uh, you can't touch me on the Mac

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and cheese. I mean, you know, I mean, you got to complete

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the meal with some baked chicken, maybe some green beans or

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something like that. But, uh, but the macaroni and cheese,

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you know, not everybody can make good Mac and cheese. But

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mine. Oh, can't be

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touched. Can't be touched. I haven't had anyone yet that's like, oh,

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what is this? So if there's

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a competition, you know, for all you macaroni lovers out

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there, sign me up. Okay.

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>> Anthony Weaver: All right. So y'all heard it. I mean, if y'all gonna make some macaroni and

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cheese, look, just tag me in those photos, and then

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I'll tag the rest. Let's make it happen.

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>> Brianna Colon: Yes, we can do that. We can do that. In fact, we're having. We had

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a, uh. We're decided in our worship team at church

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that we were, uh, gonna have a Bake Off Macaroni Bake

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off that we. That's coming up this summer, actually.

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That's how serious it is.

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>> Anthony Weaver: You gotta take video for that one.

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>> Brianna Colon: Because I. I'm gonna have to do it and I'm gonna send it to you because it's

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serious business.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Apparently.

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Uh, so this is the last question of the

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show, which is where can people find out more about

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you?

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>> Brianna Colon: Well, I am on social media on

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Facebook, Instagram

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and LinkedIn. And, uh, my. My

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website is my name

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www.briannacolon. b R

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E A N N A C O L

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O N. Looks like colon, but it's Colon

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Briannacolon.com and, uh, on social

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media, all of my social media, um,

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names are at the at sign at

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Imbrianna M Colon You can find me on any of

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those platforms if you just type in@iambrianna

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colon. Easy to find. And our

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company is integrityfsi.com. that's the website

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for the company. Integrityfsi.com.

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thank you so much for having me. This has been really fun.

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>> Anthony Weaver: Awesome. All right, well, thank you,

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everybody. Y'all be safe. We out. Peace. Bye.

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