293: [Brianna Colon] Faith + Finances: How Spiritual Beliefs Shape Financial Freedom
In this inspiring episode of About That Wallet, host Anthony Weaver sits down with Brianna Colon — a three-time author, financial coach, and passionate advocate for financial literacy. Together, they dive deep into the spiritual side of money management, exploring how faith, prayer, and mindset shape financial freedom.
Brianna shares powerful personal stories about patience, trusting God during financial decisions, and why a written budget is one of the most important tools for building wealth. You'll hear practical strategies on how to manage your cash flow, avoid emotional spending traps, set realistic savings goals, and create a financial plan that honors your faith and your family's future.
If you're part of the Sandwich Generation — juggling the care of both children and aging parents — this conversation is packed with tips to help you secure your financial foundation without losing sight of your values.
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(00:00) Welcome and Introduction
(02:30) Brianna's Background and Mission for Financial Literacy
(10:15) Faith + Finances: How Spiritual Beliefs Shape Financial Freedom
(18:00) Budgeting Tips That Actually Work
(25:45) Tackling Emotional Spending With Mindfulness
(32:30) Building a Financial Plan That Honors Your Faith and Family
(40:00) Financial Strategies for the Sandwich Generation
(48:15) Final Thoughts and Words of Wisdom
(55:00) How to Stay Connected with Brianna
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Transcript
>> Brianna Colon: So that's one area just to say, okay, now
Speaker:that I realize I'm spending $500 eating
Speaker:out in a month, let me see how I can channel that
Speaker:back. But secondly is making sure you have a written budget.
Speaker:That's that it sounds really simple. But, uh,
Speaker:every day we see people who never have had one and they've been
Speaker:around. So even though it seems like
Speaker:sometimes the problem is not as big as people seem to
Speaker:think that it is. Oh, money is tight. Sometimes money
Speaker:is not tight. It's how you're managing that's the problem. So
Speaker:it's the same. We take the same money that they've already
Speaker:had and we turn that around and just free up, uh, cash flow
Speaker:so that they can redirect it to more important things that they say
Speaker:are their goal.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Welcome back everybody to another exciting show, the about that
Speaker:Wallet podcast, where we help the savage generation build strong
Speaker:financial habits so that they can spend money,
Speaker:talk about money, and enjoy their money with
Speaker:confidence. And today I have a person who is
Speaker:a three time author, a professional speaker,
Speaker:and very passionate about families and helping them achieve
Speaker:financial security, which really aligns with
Speaker:this podcast. And her name is
Speaker:Brianna Colon And I just want to thank
Speaker:you so much Rihanna for coming on to the show.
Speaker:And how are you doing today?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: I am doing fantastic. Great to
Speaker:hang out with you today.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah, we had a, a, a, um, great laugh.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Absolutely.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: So one of the things
Speaker:uh, that you talk about in your books is about
Speaker:religion and also finances.
Speaker:What, mhm. Is the common theme that you found
Speaker:where the religious piece has really
Speaker:made such an impact for someone's
Speaker:finances?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Well, it's impacted even just for me personally.
Speaker:I can speak from experience of uh, how
Speaker:uh, having my faith in God has
Speaker:absolutely had a direct impact on
Speaker:our finances, how we make financial decisions,
Speaker:how when we pray for things and you know,
Speaker:that are related to finances. Like we, we prayed
Speaker:for, um, and we asked God to help us
Speaker:to find a new place to live and we moved
Speaker:from one part of Maryland to another part of Maryland and
Speaker:we had to make a decision. We were selling our house and then we
Speaker:had to, you know, when you're in a new area, you want to rent.
Speaker:So anyway, long story short, we prayed
Speaker:and asked the Lord to help us find a new place to rent. Now this is an
Speaker:example of where we didn't listen to God but had the
Speaker:importance of the spiritual aspect of it and bring it full
Speaker:circle. So we were looking for a place
Speaker:to rent and couldn't uh, find anywhere. Everywhere
Speaker:was so expensive because where we were moving, the price of
Speaker:the houses were like, twice as much. So. But that's
Speaker:the beauty of having God the Father, because if
Speaker:he can create a whole heaven and earth, what makes us think that he can't
Speaker:find us one house that fits within our price range?
Speaker:But at the time, we were still growing
Speaker:spiritually, which, that's a lifelong journey. But at that
Speaker:point, um, we were getting down to the wire because we're a
Speaker:military family, and we felt like, oh, we haven't found anything. We just
Speaker:got to make a decision. So we signed on a dotted line for this
Speaker:house that was $2,700 a month to rent.
Speaker:Didn't even like the house. And not even a
Speaker:few days later, this lady reached out to us that I
Speaker:had inquired with but had not seen pictures of the house. She didn't get
Speaker:back to me, so I just assumed it was no, you know, so she got
Speaker:back to me and said, oh, I'm sorry I didn't get back to you. Um,
Speaker:but here's the pictures of the house. And the house
Speaker:was exactly what we were looking for. It was
Speaker:1800amonth, which was exactly what our mortgage was
Speaker:at the previous house. Had we just waited, we
Speaker:prayed, but we didn't wait for God to answer.
Speaker:But had we waited, you know, we would have been able to capture that.
Speaker:So fast forward a few years. Several, uh, about
Speaker:10 or 15 years later, we went to, uh,
Speaker:sell the house that we bought later and then, you
Speaker:know, buy another house. But anyway, this time around, we learned our
Speaker:lesson spiritually. We were like, okay, we're King's
Speaker:kids. We understand the power of prayer, and we are going to
Speaker:wait. We're not going to be impatient and not be in microwave
Speaker:society. So we did. We were determined at the time they told
Speaker:us, for real estate, oh, you're probably going to have to overbid to
Speaker:get the house and that kind of thing. And so we
Speaker:decided, uh, we're not doing that. We're King's kids. We don't.
Speaker:We don't have to operate that way. So we didn't. We ended
Speaker:up selling our house and had several people overbid
Speaker:for our house. But the house that we bought, we did not pay a
Speaker:penny over what they asked for and got money back
Speaker:at closing. So I'm just saying as
Speaker:a personal witness, that's just one of, uh, many accounts that I
Speaker:have in my journal of how God has had a direct
Speaker:impact in our lives financially. And we have
Speaker:seen with our clients, in working with them, one
Speaker:on one, many, many Times where they come in
Speaker:and they, they feel like they make good money, they don't have enough to
Speaker:show for it, but they're coming in trying to be better stewards.
Speaker:That is their goal. And as Christians, I
Speaker:have watched God bless them to where
Speaker:they, before money was tight. And uh,
Speaker:as they're making these adjustments and strategies that we're
Speaker:asking them to, they just start having blessings out of
Speaker:nowhere. People just, uh, they're getting promotions that
Speaker:weren't expected or some surprise
Speaker:check or something that's happening. And they fully understand
Speaker:that it's the power of God working in their life. That because they're
Speaker:becoming better stewards and striving for that,
Speaker:that leaves the room that, okay, now I can bless you in this
Speaker:way because you're going to be able to handle it. You're going to be able to handle what I'm
Speaker:trying to give you. So I'm shut up right there.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Oh, no, that is, I mean, so you keep going
Speaker:because it is one of the things that goes back to
Speaker:your motto of your, uh, business, which is change your mind,
Speaker:change your money and change your life. So can you talk a little bit
Speaker:more about that process?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Yes, yes. So that is exactly how
Speaker:we help our clients. Our mission is to
Speaker:empower families to financial freedom
Speaker:using mindset and money strategy. So that motto, change
Speaker:your mind, change your money, change your life absolutely
Speaker:ties directly into the end result. If
Speaker:we want to be able to see something different, we got to be willing to do
Speaker:some things different. It's one thing to, uh,
Speaker:just, oh, I just, I just need to get on a budget and I'll
Speaker:be fine. Or I'm going to just file bankruptcy and then I'll
Speaker:just start fresh and I'll be good. That's not enough. That's a band
Speaker:aid. If we don't change the habits that led
Speaker:to the issue of the finances being tight,
Speaker:then how do we expect to have a long lasting result? We
Speaker:can't. So it's important to get to the root
Speaker:issues of why I'm not
Speaker:where I feel I need to be financially at this point
Speaker:in time. You may have someone that on the surface may
Speaker:say, like, I had a client that said, uh,
Speaker:well, I was unemployed for
Speaker:seven, um, months and so that caused me to get behind on the
Speaker:bills and it just caused a ripple effect and
Speaker:everything. Now that might have been an additional
Speaker:condition. Uh, but the root issue is you're not
Speaker:a saver. Because if you were properly saving and
Speaker:understood how to save from the beginning, that seven months would
Speaker:have Been a welcome vacation. It wouldn't have been a stress out. I can't
Speaker:pay my bills. So it's really, really important.
Speaker:And this is the reason why people end up filing for bankruptcy
Speaker:twice, because it's easy to say, well, they didn't learn their
Speaker:lesson the first time. No, they just didn't understand that they needed to
Speaker:get to the root issue of the money habits that have
Speaker:contributed to them being, in their own
Speaker:way, financially.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Because we talking to the sandwich generation here, which means that
Speaker:they have kids to take care of and also their care
Speaker:takers of their, uh, their parents. What
Speaker:strategies for the people who are tight right
Speaker:now to look even for retirement, to kind
Speaker:of breathe a little bit. Like, what strategies would
Speaker:you, um, I would say
Speaker:suggest for them because we can't recommend because,
Speaker:you know, you have to work with you to get some recommendations.
Speaker:But as a suggestion.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Right, right. Well, one of the things that I find is very
Speaker:common with a lot of people is
Speaker:using the debit card. A lot of people have just gotten
Speaker:comfortable using the debit card for everything.
Speaker:Everything is swipe, swipe, swipe. But the problem is it
Speaker:gives us a false sense of what we're spending because
Speaker:we tend to get comfortable and feel like, oh, it was just $20,
Speaker:it was just $10, it was just 15, and before you know
Speaker:it, it was actually 400, it was actually 800. So
Speaker:one of the things that's a practical thing that they can do
Speaker:is to go back and look. If you're a debit card user and, you know, you don't
Speaker:cash and carry, go back and look at two
Speaker:months of, uh, bank statements and write down
Speaker:the categories for. We're not talking about the bills, we're talking about
Speaker:everything else you spent money on. And break it
Speaker:down by category. And look, look at how much you spend on
Speaker:gas, how much you spent on groceries, on
Speaker:shopping, on eating out. And you will
Speaker:be surprised, uh, at what you find out. People
Speaker:get amazing. Um,
Speaker:this is part of the homework process that we have our clients actually go through.
Speaker:But this is something practical people can do. But the point is,
Speaker:when people do do this, you know, they come back looking at
Speaker:it like, oh, my gosh, I can't believe,
Speaker:uh, I'm spending this much money in this area.
Speaker:What, Uh, I can't believe I gave $300 to
Speaker:doggone Starbucks. What was I thinking? You know, they
Speaker:just really don't realize. So just that little simple
Speaker:exercise raises your awareness
Speaker:to say, all right, I'm really tripping. Let me pull back in this Area.
Speaker:So that's one area just to say, okay, now that
Speaker:I realize I'm spending $500 eating out
Speaker:in a month, let me see how I can channel that
Speaker:back. But secondly is making sure you have a written budget.
Speaker:That's that. It sounds really simple. But, uh,
Speaker:every day we see people who never have had one and they've been
Speaker:around. So even though it seems like
Speaker:sometimes the problem is not as big as people seem to
Speaker:think that it is. Oh, money is tight. Sometimes money
Speaker:is not tight. It's how you're managing that's the problem.
Speaker:So it's the same. We take the same money that
Speaker:they've already had and we turn that around and just free
Speaker:up cash flow so that they can redirect it to more important things
Speaker:that they say are their goals. So sometimes it's just. You're
Speaker:so used to seeing it the way you're seeing it, it's hard to
Speaker:capture anything different or see the problem. So if they do that, those
Speaker:are just two practical things of,
Speaker:uh, let me pull two months of bank statements and see what
Speaker:I've really been doing and how can I pull back in that area?
Speaker:Maybe I actually could free up money that I didn't even know I
Speaker:could. Uh, you know, that, that's one thing.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah, yeah, those, those are really good practical tips.
Speaker:And I'm trying to think of somebody so
Speaker:say if they. Have you ever had anybody
Speaker:actually faltered? Like they went through the program, they was like, oh,
Speaker:yeah, I love it, doing the thing, and then
Speaker:they failed again. What was the reason why they
Speaker:relapse?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: So the, the money behavior
Speaker:would be the reason. We have had, uh, maybe
Speaker:a couple, couple people, few people that, that have
Speaker:had. That had gotten on a good path and we had gotten to where
Speaker:I was only seeing them maybe every three months or every
Speaker:six months. You know, we have a graduation process here.
Speaker:So, um, but then they had had a relapse
Speaker:and. And it really was the one. I'll give
Speaker:one example. For the family, it was a money
Speaker:behavior issue of, uh, emotional
Speaker:spending. Making major financial decisions
Speaker:from an emotional state of mind is an
Speaker:issue for some people. And trying to overcome
Speaker:that habit, it takes time, which is why this
Speaker:is like a long process because you didn't get where you were overnight. So
Speaker:you're not going to get out of it overnight, but you have to have
Speaker:enough, uh, life circumstances happen
Speaker:to practice, uh, that new habit that you're
Speaker:trying to create and one of, in this case, emotional
Speaker:spending. So for that particular family, they had a family
Speaker:a Major family event where a family member had gotten
Speaker:sick and was in the hospital for an extended period of time.
Speaker:And that caused them to, oh, I'm just dropping everything,
Speaker:because the person, the family member was in the hospital in a
Speaker:different location, and it wasn't, uh, feasible for them
Speaker:to just be driving back and forth. So then it became, well, now we need
Speaker:to get an Airbnb. Now we need to. We need to, you know, so without
Speaker:even really sitting down to say, let me use my planning
Speaker:tool. Let me not forget all the stuff that I just spent a year or two
Speaker:learning. It was just the emotion of,
Speaker:oh, I got to be there. I'm going to do whatever's necessary, you
Speaker:know. And so that caused them to quickly
Speaker:start draining the savings that we had built and, you
Speaker:know, having more credit debt again, and so those
Speaker:types of things. And so now, you know, they. They, you
Speaker:know, were able to come back, of course, and we were able to address that and kind of
Speaker:get back on track. But that's just, you know, one example that
Speaker:can cause a person to be derailed if they just
Speaker:haven't. If they don't take a minute and just say, let me. Let me
Speaker:just hold up. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Don't just. And
Speaker:do stuff. Um, I did learn some things.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah. Because it goes back to the emergency fund.
Speaker:What are your thoughts on that? Common theme from the one person
Speaker:with glasses as ballheaded like to say that you only need
Speaker:$1,000 to, uh, for your
Speaker:emergency fund. So what are your thoughts on that?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: I disagree. I object, your
Speaker:honor. So
Speaker:it's $1,000 is the first goal. If you don't
Speaker:have any money saved, people have the right
Speaker:idea of, I know I should save money,
Speaker:but we don't always do good with saving with
Speaker:intention. Knowing what is the number I should be
Speaker:striving for. What's the magic number? Sometimes we can
Speaker:get to 10,000 and think we've done something that's an accomplishment,
Speaker:but that's not enough. So the first goal should be
Speaker:$1,000. If you have no money saved at all, I got to at
Speaker:least get to a thousand as soon as possible.
Speaker:Uh, the next goal after that would be to look at,
Speaker:again, going back to the budget, which is your planning tool, to see
Speaker:how much money do I bring in, what against, what are all my
Speaker:expenses, subtracting that. And so when you're looking at all of
Speaker:that, how much money does it take to run
Speaker:your house? We know your lifestyle number is what you're used
Speaker:to living off of the full amount of the check. But what is
Speaker:your necessity number? If you were laying out all of
Speaker:the bills, the groceries, the gas, everything that needs to be
Speaker:paid for, that has to be paid for in a given month and you
Speaker:lost your job tomorrow, what is that number?
Speaker:And whatever that number is, that becomes your next goal.
Speaker:That is my one month cash reserve goal.
Speaker:So once you have gotten to that goal, then you keep going two
Speaker:months cash reserve and it allows people again to
Speaker:start saving with intention. Because now that I understand
Speaker:that, now I can figure out how much money can I
Speaker:allocate to savings consistently every month
Speaker:and now I can set a goal date. People don't set goal dates like
Speaker:they should, which they make savings optional. Oh well, yeah, I'm
Speaker:not going to save this month because I had to take care of so and so and so and
Speaker:so they devalue savings. But saving
Speaker:money is just as important as getting out of debt.
Speaker:And you know, when people get a lump sum of money, what do they do most of the time
Speaker:they oh, I'm gonna pay off this, this and this, and I'm gonna spend this,
Speaker:this and this and I might save $50.
Speaker:What? That's backwards. No, if we
Speaker:get a lump sum of money and we don't have any money saved, we better be
Speaker:thinking about the savings because we don't know when an
Speaker:emergency is going to come. We don't get a heads up advance
Speaker:that the emergency is coming. So what happens if we put all
Speaker:this money on the debt and now an emergency comes, we didn't
Speaker:save nothing and now we're right back in debt again and then the cycle
Speaker:continues and we see that a lot with people. So
Speaker:anyway, the point is that you continue and
Speaker:so I used to say a six month
Speaker:cash reserve, but now that we've seen clients that
Speaker:have been out of work for extended periods, now
Speaker:we say 12 months. I call it the peace of mind package.
Speaker:And it sounds like a lot of money, but that doesn't mean you got to have it all
Speaker:in uh, in a savings account, earning point nothing percent.
Speaker:It just means that you have liquid cash that's accessible to
Speaker:you. If you're making a hundred thousand dollars a year, you should have
Speaker:way more than $10,000 sitting in your account.
Speaker:That's a great start if you used to saving, but you got to keep going.
Speaker:If you start thinking about that. Wait a minute, if I'm used to taking
Speaker:home six to $8,000 a month, how long
Speaker:is uh, $10,000 gonna last me? A
Speaker:minute, a short minute.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: You Got that right.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Yeah. You know, but people don't think about it
Speaker:from that perspective because many are not
Speaker:used to having lots of money. Like sometimes I tell
Speaker:clients, sometimes you got to give yourself permission that it's
Speaker:okay for you to have $50,000 just
Speaker:sitting up. It's okay for you to have 75,000.
Speaker:Like it's okay you making 100,000 a year. Why can't
Speaker:you have 75,000 saved up, you know, and some.
Speaker:But it's sometimes it's that simple. For it to click in people's minds,
Speaker:change your mind is just giving yourself
Speaker:permission. It's okay for me to have a lot of money. It really is okay.
Speaker:I'm not working just to pay bills.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Love it.
Speaker:So we're going to move into the third segment here, which is the
Speaker:futures. And what do you
Speaker:see has been like in the
Speaker:trajectory, the way how things are going? How do
Speaker:you see that the sandwich generation can move to a
Speaker:place where they have the most confidence? Um,
Speaker:like, are there any strategies, AI tools,
Speaker:like any new systems that you can think of that could kind
Speaker:of help people solidify their
Speaker:features?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: M. That's a good one. How
Speaker:to solidify their future.
Speaker:I don't know of any AI
Speaker:tools. I'm still getting into the AI
Speaker:portion of the world, but technology.
Speaker:But uh, in general, the best
Speaker:way that you can solidify your future is to make sure you have
Speaker:a solid financial plan. Because you have a
Speaker:financial plan, then you also have peace of mind. You know
Speaker:where you are now, you know where you're headed, you know where you're going.
Speaker:And it allows you to
Speaker:position yourself to always have a choice.
Speaker:You know, when people start planning towards future as
Speaker:far as like retirement and whatnot,
Speaker:um, they. Again, this is another
Speaker:area where people have the right idea but don't always know
Speaker:how to do things properly. So we have the right idea of, uh,
Speaker:we know we should put money aside so we can have money in the
Speaker:future. Whether we're investing it, uh, outside of
Speaker:retirement or whether we're just putting money aside for
Speaker:retirement, but we don't always know if what
Speaker:we're doing is going to get us where we need to be. That's a whole
Speaker:different thing. It's one thing to have an investment account or a
Speaker:retirement account, but if you don't have a retirement
Speaker:plan, then what, what are we doing? You're just throwing money in and
Speaker:hoping for an end result. We don't have to hope for the end result.
Speaker:We can actually plan and know what the result is going to
Speaker:Be. So that is, is protecting your
Speaker:future. That is how you prepare, is let me make
Speaker:sure that I am solid and that I understand.
Speaker:How do I eliminate debt? How do I move to a
Speaker:place of financial freedom both now and later? I want
Speaker:to be able to live life on my own terms.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Do what I want to do when I feel like doing it.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Because I mean, like you said, it's having those options to do what you want to
Speaker:do.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Yes. Positioning to have the choice.
Speaker:Oh, key factor right
Speaker:now.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Do you have these conversations with your parents too, or
Speaker:your husband's parents? Like, far as, like, what are y'all
Speaker:planning on doing in the future? Like, are they
Speaker:going to stay with y'all? Are you going to put them in like a
Speaker:assistant living or you're gonna.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: I'm putting them in the nursing home.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Staying over here.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: No, I'm kidding. But now,
Speaker:yes, we absolutely have, uh, had those
Speaker:conversations. And, and that's a good point that, that you're making
Speaker:about the fact that we should have these conversations with our
Speaker:parents. Sometimes that's the hush, hush conversation,
Speaker:you know. Oh, I don't know. I don't want to tell you all that because
Speaker:what, you're trying to kill me off? What's going on
Speaker:here? So, yes, we did have the conversation
Speaker:of, um, what do you have in place
Speaker:for, uh, if you have to go into, well,
Speaker:a. What type of care do you want to receive? If you get to
Speaker:a point that you can't take care of yourself? Do you want to go into
Speaker:assisted living facility? Do you want to have a caregiver come into
Speaker:the home? And once we know the answer to that, then
Speaker:the next question is, now we know how much that is going to
Speaker:cost. Where is that money coming from? Do you have a long term care
Speaker:policy? Do you have enough in your retirement assets to
Speaker:cover all of those expenses? Is that going
Speaker:to come out of my pocket? I need to know in advance
Speaker:because I didn't plan that in my financial plan. That wasn't in
Speaker:there.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Right.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: All right. It's not in my retirement plan. But we are,
Speaker:uh, planning as far as in our
Speaker:home having a suite on the main
Speaker:floor so that if any of our parents need to come and live with
Speaker:us, then we're, we're prepared from that standpoint to be
Speaker:able to take care of our family. And actually my father, he
Speaker:passed away a couple of years ago. I actually did have to have him come and
Speaker:live with me. Um, but prior to that, years
Speaker:prior to that, I actually sat down with him as well.
Speaker:And said, hey, you know, do you have a will? You know,
Speaker:what do you have? And he had none of that in place. He was
Speaker:doing great financially. He didn't have any debt, but
Speaker:did not have a will in place. So I helped him to get a will. That's another
Speaker:area that we need to know as, uh, the, you know, the
Speaker:ones that are taking care of our parents in the future. Those
Speaker:are hard questions to ask sometimes, depending on the nature
Speaker:of your relationship, but. But an important question to ask because
Speaker:we don't want to be scrambling. It's enough to already be grieving when you
Speaker:lose a loved one, but it would be nice for them to have their
Speaker:stuff in order, get the estate planning done, do everything that you
Speaker:need to do so that all of your finances are in
Speaker:order. Do you know what life insurance your parents have? You
Speaker:know, are you. Are they putting an executive executor on
Speaker:the estate? And sometimes even when they have life insurance policies,
Speaker:they don't always. Not all of them have had good policies.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: That's true.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: We had a lady that. Her, um, A
Speaker:client of mine whose mother was 79 at the
Speaker:time, and they were trying. Her and her siblings had been trying to have conversation
Speaker:with her about her important papers, if you will. And she was
Speaker:not really trying to talk to them about it. It was, you know, one of them things. The
Speaker:briefcases in the back, on the back porch. Don't touch it and don't
Speaker:ask me. So, um, so anyway, she had been working
Speaker:with me and asked her mom if she would be open to talking to me.
Speaker:And so mom was open to meeting with me.
Speaker:And we sat down and looked and went through all of her stuff and come to find
Speaker:out her insurance policy was going to expire at 80 years
Speaker:old. And she was 79. And we were like,
Speaker:are you serious right now? That was such a blessing
Speaker:and God's timing on, uh, me meeting
Speaker:with her because, you know, who wants to be finding out at 80?
Speaker:Oh, yeah, by the way, sorry, your policy is done. Sorry,
Speaker:Sorry. Or if we let you keep it, you're gonna have to pay
Speaker:$1,000 now instead of maybe the hundred dollars you were paying
Speaker:before.
Speaker:So we were able to fix that and get it all switched around.
Speaker:But I'm just again stressing the importance
Speaker:of having people that, um,
Speaker:that, uh, making sure that you look at your parents stuff and make sure
Speaker:they understand what they have. Because some of it they got a long time ago.
Speaker:They got it from, you know, brother such and such who was selling
Speaker:insurance, and they were just Doing, you know, helping them out. And they didn't really
Speaker:understand everything. In fact, I got one more example, and I shut
Speaker:up. I have a, um, client
Speaker:that just reached out to me within the last week,
Speaker:whose father is 84 years old,
Speaker:and they're now having to keep paying more
Speaker:into the insurance. The policy keeps, uh, going up,
Speaker:keeps going up, and, uh, there's no end in sight. Uh,
Speaker:it's going to keep going up every year. And they were trying to
Speaker:decide, we put all this money into it. Do we keep it
Speaker:at this point, or do we just, you know, try to suffer
Speaker:through and keep paying on it? Like, you shouldn't have to be
Speaker:making those kind of decisions with your parents at, uh, 84
Speaker:years old. What in the world? So please have
Speaker:that conversation hard or not hard, because eventually
Speaker:you become the parents to your parent. So it's important to open
Speaker:up that dialogue. Hey, I'm just trying to look out for you
Speaker:and want to make sure that if there's any areas of deficiency,
Speaker:that we address that together so that we make sure you have all
Speaker:your stuff in a row. I got all my stuff in a row. And we're all doing
Speaker:great financially.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Love it.
Speaker:Um, is there anything you want to leave a, uh, person that's
Speaker:listening to this right now before we dive into the final
Speaker:four?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Anything that you want to
Speaker:achieve financially is possible.
Speaker:Sometimes people will, uh, be afraid
Speaker:to voice the things that they really desire and really
Speaker:want because they feel it's so far out there that it's not
Speaker:okay. And I don't know at all, based on my current
Speaker:situation, when am I going to be able to achieve it? Your current
Speaker:situation is your current situation. You have the ability to change.
Speaker:Being broke, um, is optional. You don't have to be in
Speaker:that particular place. Wherever you're at now financially,
Speaker:is not where you have to be in the future. Financially, it's
Speaker:important to get with. If you don't know how to do it on your own, then
Speaker:it's important for you to get with a financial advisor that you can
Speaker:trust so that you can get a solid plan. Because I'm
Speaker:telling you, whatever you want financially is possible
Speaker:with a good financial plan. You just gotta be
Speaker:willing to change your mind, change your money, and that
Speaker:will change your life.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: I love that. Full circle here.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: That's what I do, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Uh, so you ready for the final four?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Sure.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: All right, number one, what does wealth
Speaker:mean to you?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Love it.
Speaker:Wealth to me
Speaker:means being able
Speaker:to do what I want to do when I Want to
Speaker:do it, live life on my own terms
Speaker:continuously.
Speaker:Because if I'm doing well continuously, then
Speaker:that means those that are attached to me will be doing well
Speaker:continuously because I can't take it with me when I die.
Speaker:So, uh, but if I want to take a trip
Speaker:and not have to worry about pinching
Speaker:pennies, if I want to take a first class trip every time
Speaker:I want to be able to do that, or making work
Speaker:optional, all that fits into the same category
Speaker:where work is optional, but I'm only 50 years old.
Speaker:You know, like, that's creating wealth, the
Speaker:ability to live life on your own terms
Speaker:continuously.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: I like that number. Ah,
Speaker:two. What was your worst money mistake?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Well, that's a good one. Having seven credit cards in
Speaker:college.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Wow.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Okay. I didn't grow up learning about money.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Right.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: And you know, even though my parents were doing fine, you know,
Speaker:they, that's a cultural thing. We didn't always know
Speaker:everything that we're supposed to teach. Of course, parents do the best they know how to
Speaker:do. But, um, the financial area weren't
Speaker:things that they taught me. So I just
Speaker:learned on my own and signed up for every credit card they
Speaker:offered me in college. You know, they offered me free stuff in
Speaker:exchange for applying. So I just thought it was a good
Speaker:idea. And before you know it, I had
Speaker:seven credit cards. But I was working.
Speaker:I was working. And so I, um,
Speaker:figured I got my own money. I was playing. I was a musician and a
Speaker:choir director. So I was making my own money and figured, oh, I'm
Speaker:fine. But it almost cost me
Speaker:marrying my now husband because we went to look
Speaker:at the finances and said, hey, uh, he was
Speaker:like, uh, you got a lot going on here.
Speaker:And he almost didn't marry me because of my debt.
Speaker:But luckily I had enough of everything else going on
Speaker:that he married me anyway. And now here we are 30 years
Speaker:later, but we work together to get out of debt is the point.
Speaker:So. But 30 years later, we're still together. Be 30 years
Speaker:this coming July.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Congrats. Congrats.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Thank you. And I'm still 30 years old. Look at that.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah. No, right. Flawless over there.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Amazing.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Um, this is a side question though. How important
Speaker:is are the parents when it comes to the child's
Speaker:finances?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: It's very important because
Speaker:if you don't teach them, it's either taught or it's
Speaker:caught. It's one or the other. Either.
Speaker:Either they're going to learn by you teaching
Speaker:them or they're going to catch your bad
Speaker:habits because they're around you. And they're learning everything
Speaker:you do. We have seen generational
Speaker:curses, uh, going on, uh, within our organization
Speaker:and our families because we, we encourage our families to
Speaker:make it a, make it a family affair when they start this
Speaker:process, especially for those living with them. We tell them, look,
Speaker:uh, you need to go ahead and tell your kids that, uh, you're
Speaker:going on a financial path and they may be impacted by
Speaker:these changes, but they need to govern themselves accordingly. So,
Speaker:yes, it's a very big deal what you
Speaker:do and how you manage your money is a very big deal as it
Speaker:pertains to your kids. And there are things that you need to be teaching them along
Speaker:the way that can help them to learn and be more
Speaker:open. Sometimes parents aren't open about it, especially if they're not doing
Speaker:well. But it's important to let the kids see
Speaker:that helps them learn and prepare for adulthood. And sometimes you'll
Speaker:find they'll keep you more accountable than you can keep yourself. Ma, you said
Speaker:you were only spending 200 on the groceries. And you, you
Speaker:had 260. You better register embarrassed. Like, shut
Speaker:up.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Talk about it.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Right? But I asked you shut up. But
Speaker:you said so. Uh, so I think
Speaker:that's, it's, um, the role that we
Speaker:play in helping them to learn about money
Speaker:absolutely impacts how they manage money
Speaker:as adults. Because I have absolutely seen
Speaker:moms manage money terribly. And then
Speaker:it trickled down to the adult children that I meet with,
Speaker:too, that also manage money terribly. So if we can
Speaker:make changes and adjustments now, even if it's teaching them
Speaker:to not do what you're doing, you know, that's still
Speaker:helpful. That's still teaching. It's still
Speaker:meaningful.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: I like that. Thank you.
Speaker:Uh, number three, Is there a book that inspired your
Speaker:journey or changed your perspective?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Think, uh, and grow rich. Napoleon
Speaker:Hill. You know, our. Our mind, uh, it's
Speaker:amazing. The brain is amazing. And
Speaker:the things that we're able to
Speaker:visualize and eventually,
Speaker:uh, materialize, cause it to become a reality
Speaker:later, is amazing. And I think if we really
Speaker:understood how the brain works and the things that.
Speaker:The control that we do have, the things that we can think
Speaker:about and visualize,
Speaker:um, many people would probably be a lot
Speaker:further than they, than they are. Um, I had
Speaker:a. I, uh, used to visualize,
Speaker:um, a, ah, BMW before I bought
Speaker:one. And not
Speaker:just visualize like, oh, that's a cute car. But I mean, like,
Speaker:spend time with my eyes closed thinking
Speaker:about what it would feel like once I got in the car. I was seeing
Speaker:myself in the car, like, I had the shades on. I was
Speaker:looking in the rearview mirror, looking at myself. I had the top down.
Speaker:I mean, you know, like, I was chilling,
Speaker:right? And I actually had forgotten because I spent
Speaker:time, you know, like, just a few minutes a day visualizing,
Speaker:thinking about it, because I was like, this is on my vision board, and I want
Speaker:one. And then some. It took some
Speaker:years before I bought it, but. And by the
Speaker:time I bought it, I actually had forgotten that I had been thinking about it, actually, because
Speaker:I had stopped thinking about it and moved on to other stuff. But then it
Speaker:hit me one day after I had the car, and I was
Speaker:like, oh, I had been visualizing about
Speaker:this thing. Oh, my goodness. Oh, look at that. Look at
Speaker:that. But, you know, this amazing that, you know,
Speaker:the things that we think about. Everything starts with a
Speaker:vision. This company I have right now started with a vision. I knew
Speaker:I wanted to be able to help people with their finances.
Speaker:Uh, and I wanted to really help the people who would not
Speaker:ordinarily pick up the phone and say, I need a financial advisor.
Speaker:The. The. That middle group. So I, um.
Speaker:And God has done just that. That. This. That we. Has.
Speaker:Has allowed us to just help people to change their
Speaker:financial life in ways that they never knew was possible. So that
Speaker:whole visual thing. Oh, my goodness. Yes.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: I love it.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Please do visualization. Yes.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Yeah. And to make that.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Ah, Think and grow rich.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: There you go.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Yes. Think and grow rich.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Number four, what is your favorite
Speaker:dish to make?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Well, that would require you to actually like to cook.
Speaker:Okay. My favorite dish, okay. Of,
Speaker:uh, the handful of dishes that I cook
Speaker:is macaroni and cheese. Uh, you can't touch me on the Mac
Speaker:and cheese. I mean, you know, I mean, you got to complete
Speaker:the meal with some baked chicken, maybe some green beans or
Speaker:something like that. But, uh, but the macaroni and cheese,
Speaker:you know, not everybody can make good Mac and cheese. But
Speaker:mine. Oh, can't be
Speaker:touched. Can't be touched. I haven't had anyone yet that's like, oh,
Speaker:what is this? So if there's
Speaker:a competition, you know, for all you macaroni lovers out
Speaker:there, sign me up. Okay.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: All right. So y'all heard it. I mean, if y'all gonna make some macaroni and
Speaker:cheese, look, just tag me in those photos, and then
Speaker:I'll tag the rest. Let's make it happen.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Yes, we can do that. We can do that. In fact, we're having. We had
Speaker:a, uh. We're decided in our worship team at church
Speaker:that we were, uh, gonna have a Bake Off Macaroni Bake
Speaker:off that we. That's coming up this summer, actually.
Speaker:That's how serious it is.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: You gotta take video for that one.
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Because I. I'm gonna have to do it and I'm gonna send it to you because it's
Speaker:serious business.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Apparently.
Speaker:Uh, so this is the last question of the
Speaker:show, which is where can people find out more about
Speaker:you?
Speaker:>> Brianna Colon: Well, I am on social media on
Speaker:Facebook, Instagram
Speaker:and LinkedIn. And, uh, my. My
Speaker:website is my name
Speaker:www.briannacolon. b R
Speaker:E A N N A C O L
Speaker:O N. Looks like colon, but it's Colon
Speaker:Briannacolon.com and, uh, on social
Speaker:media, all of my social media, um,
Speaker:names are at the at sign at
Speaker:Imbrianna M Colon You can find me on any of
Speaker:those platforms if you just type in@iambrianna
Speaker:colon. Easy to find. And our
Speaker:company is integrityfsi.com. that's the website
Speaker:for the company. Integrityfsi.com.
Speaker:thank you so much for having me. This has been really fun.
Speaker:>> Anthony Weaver: Awesome. All right, well, thank you,
Speaker:everybody. Y'all be safe. We out. Peace. Bye.